Lately, I always feel like the one I like is deliberately staying away from me, and I feel empty inside.
I've put my foot down enough, even a little bit of stalking, but it's really mentally and physically exhausting every time.
Sometimes it's hard to tell if I'm feeling sorry for the other person or pitying myself, but my favorites come from the heart.
I thought that if I held back from contacting her, she would reach out to me, but I ended up tossing and turning and losing sleep all by myself.
What's the situation on her end, I can't get an answer even if I ask, maybe I don't have enough emotional intelligence to understand what she's saying.
I sent a bunch of messages and all I got in return was a perfunctory one-liner.
Don't want to fool around with the idea that the dynamics of my life are something she doesn't even look at, and I barely exist in her world.
It's really so sad and heartbreaking that I just want to laugh bitterly.
Hello, Mr. Owner. I'm Kohoku, the whale social worker.
First of all, I'd like to give you a warm hug, and I can especially understand how you are feeling right now. From your description, I can feel that you have been unilaterally liking someone, but the other person did not respond. Maybe the other person does not really like you, and may even have never moved on.
You also mentioned that you seem a bit humble in the relationship, and that if we always try to please the other person with a low profile, instead, we tend to make the other person unappreciative.
So yeah, instead of pinning your happiness on others, you should focus more on yourself. Make an effort to improve yourself and become more attractive, so that not only can you attract more attention, but the other person may also change their mind about you. For example, you can develop some hobbies or do those things that you have always wanted to try.
Good luck with everything~ (whale social worker 🐳)
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