Fate really makes people cry sometimes! I can't help but reflect on whether I have planted some kind of cause in my past life that I have to go through such a marriage test in this life. My husband is not at all considerate and caring, let alone tolerant. For example, when I mentioned several times that eating certain foods would give me stomach pains, not only did he not take it seriously, but he felt that I was nagging him, and even blamed me out of turn. Looking back, he used to say that I was like a bellhop or a nanny, which I didn't care about at the time, but now I really regret it.
In the face of all his dissatisfaction, I began to think whether I should choose to leave. Even if there is no one to love me in this life, at least I can love myself well, which is better than being blamed and abused every day and not feeling understood. Living alone may be hard, but it's more relaxing than being in tears.
Even if you are still in a marriage, it doesn't stop you from caring for yourself well. Marriage is not a reason to give up your self-worth, start nourishing yourself from within first.
The interaction between two people is like a dance, with back and forth that slowly creates a fixed pattern. To break this habit, one needs to be proactive and try some new moves, such as changing the way they communicate or express their needs, in order to reshape the relationship dynamic.