Every day at work, I feel like sleepwalking, and when I enter the company, my heart is blocked, especially homesick, and I miss my girlfriend. Before there was a colleague that I could talk to, but the day before yesterday he also resigned. Now I have to face the headache of the leader and difficult colleagues alone. From graduation to now, more and more feel that can not suffer in vain, so have been enduring. The salary is really good, but the work atmosphere is weighing me down. Confused and torn, I don't know what I can do after quitting my job and whether I will encounter the same situation again.
Hello friend. It seems that the work atmosphere is particularly depressing for you, and the leadership and coworkers make you feel uncomfortable, but the salary aspect makes it difficult for you to give up. Plus, you've been at it for so long, it's really hard to give up now. I understand the feeling of confusion.
First of all, you mentioned that there is little to attract you to this job other than the high salary. You don't like the work itself or the leadership or coworkers, but it's really torturous to have to tough it out every day. And it sounds like you're far from home and your girlfriend. The key question is: is this high salary worth the hassle you have to put up with? If it's worth it, then try to adjust your mindset; if it's not worth it, even if you find a job with a lower salary but a good atmosphere, you should leave decisively.
You need to think hard about what you value more: is it material enjoyment or spiritual fulfillment? If material things are more important, then put up with it for a while while you learn how to improve your relationships. Maybe your job will become more pleasant after you've dealt with your relationships, and it won't be too late to leave when you've saved up enough money. If the spiritual dimension is more important, then don't be too obsessed with salary and find a job close to home that you like. With a good working atmosphere, you will be happy and work hard, and a promotion and pay rise will be a matter of course. Of course, the ideal is to find a job that can satisfy your material needs as well as make you mentally happy!