At work and in life, we often need to communicate on the phone, but apart from familiar friends, relatives and colleagues, many people feel extremely afraid of calling strangers. Despite having to call, it is always hard to do so, resulting in a shaky voice, incoherent speech and nervousness. This obsession is very common, don't worry, let's find a solution together.
Hey, a warm hug to you first! Actually, everyone gets a little nervous when faced with unfamiliar people and things, it's a normal reaction, don't be too hard on yourself.
The main reason you're so scared is because you're not sure how the other person will respond. It's not the strangers themselves you're worried about, it's that unpredictable interaction, isn't it? Because you can't control the situation, it's easy to lack confidence. In contrast, a familiar person makes you feel secure because you know how they will react and everything is under control.
So, don't magnify this fear. Behind it is a reflection of your uneasiness with out-of-control situations. Allow yourself to handle things poorly once in a while, after all, no one is perfect and it's normal to have limited abilities.
I'm Lily Little Ears from the Answer Library, and remember, the world and I are rooting for you!