I'm 24 years old, a girl, and so many of my friends around me got divorced within a short time of getting married, making me especially confused. How do we determine the person we can walk together for the rest of our lives? Is there any specific criteria to judge?
Hello, sir.
Actually, true love and marriage are two completely different things. True love may start with the face or the feeling of the heart, is to like each other and attraction. But marriage, is a social agreement, need two people together to pay, mutual concessions, constant wear and tear, and even sometimes have to sacrifice a little self; in life all kinds of big and small things, both sides have to have the ability and willingness to face the challenges hand in hand. Even if two people are true love, it does not necessarily guarantee that the marriage will last.By understanding this early, you will not have unrealistic fantasies about marriage, and without too many fantasies, you will not demand too much from your marriage, which in turn may make the relationship stronger.
In a long married life, you are like a ship that will go through all kinds of storms and waves, and whether or not you can reach the end safely depends on whether or not both of you have important qualities, such as perseverance, patience, self-discipline, and a sense of responsibility.Many people now say that when a modern marriage breaks down, you just get a new one, and no one wants to go to the trouble of fixing it. But you can't avoid marital problems by relying on true love alone.
So, when you love each other, cherish it, live in the moment, and enjoy the times when you are attracted to each other. If you get married out of love, then run your business with all your heart, support each other and overcome difficulties together. As for how it turns out, even with all the conditions, no one can pack a bag.