I am 25 years old, I have never been in love, my parents are always pushing me to get married, my job is not satisfactory, sometimes I feel inferior, I feel that I am not doing well in all aspects. My relationships are a mess, I am impatient and suspicious, I am afraid of being abandoned by everyone, and I even give up on myself. Although I want to make positive changes, I can easily give up halfway.
Hey, how are you my friend ~ I am Whale Social Worker Xiao Bei, and I would like to give you a warm hug first! I understand your feelings very well. I can see from your description that you are now facing multiple pressures from work, family and marriage, but this is actually a common experience for many young people. Your age is actually very advantageous Oh, because many highly educated people may not begin to consider starting a family until their thirties, so don't be too anxious, these are common phenomena in modern society.
We can start with the work side first, because it is easier to coordinate when you are stable in your job and then deal with the marriage issue. If you finalize your relationship first, changing jobs may bring more ties. It is not a bad idea to take a moment to think about what kind of career you really like and whether your current job suits you. These are all key points to think about carefully.
After that, you can look for your other half through friends' referrals, family members' recommendations or social platforms. Don't be in a hurry and don't be overly anxious because this is not a problem for you alone, but the norm for young people in today's generation. Take your time and everything will be fine!
Good luck~ (whale social worker 🐳)