I'm a freshman in high school, and I really didn't do too well academically, so when my parents saw my scores, they planned to send me to a remedial school for my sophomore year. But I was quite hesitant myself and wanted to put it off until my senior year. But they repeatedly emphasized that it would be too late for my senior year, and also let it slip that if I didn't go to a remedial school in my sophomore year, they wouldn't care about me in the future, and would let me just hang out at my current school. They even think I'm getting more and more rebellious and can't control me at all.
What should I do? I failed all of my science classes, so I chose liberal arts on my own, but my parents can't seem to understand it at all, and they always talk about my poor grades, so I'm really falling apart. In fact, I want to do well in science, but as a girl, I have a hard time with physics and math, and even though I've enrolled in remedial classes this semester, the results aren't obvious. Instead, they blamed me for wasting my money and said that it would be better not to make up for it, and my whole body was confused.
I'm completely directionless right now, I feel trapped in science, how the hell do I get out of this situation?
Hello, dear high school students! I'm Juju♡
First of all, the choice of division is yours, and your parents can't force you to make it for you.
♡Parents send you to a tutorial school with the intention of helping you improve your grades, but when they see that you have low scores, they may not feel that it's worth investing in a tutorial class, so as soon as they hear that you want to enroll in a class, they simply refuse. This kind of reaction is actually quite common, and parents tend to value instant results.
Learning is ultimately dependent on their own, some teachers love to talk about skills and shortcuts, but the college entrance examination questions will not play cards according to the set of rules, the basic principles is the key.
What benefits does a cram school bring?
The first is to develop self-discipline, where cell phones are more strictly regulated than at school, so you can't be distracted. However, there is a preponderance of middle and poor students in the supplementary school, after all, everyone is there to be bad.
Secondly, the work and rest time is fixed, you want to be lazy, there is no chance, the environment forces you to learn.
Thirdly, remedial schools are suitable for students with poor self-discipline and weak foundations, focusing on habit formation and score improvement, but the cost is high - tuition plus living expenses for a year on our side would be 60,000 to 70,000, depending on the family budget.
If you can't control yourself and listen to your lectures like they're in heaven, then a remedial school might be able to give you a push.
Fourth, remedial classes still work for most people, don't look at the school teachers spouting off, I grew up taking remedial classes and think they do help.
♡ Just follow your heart by separating arts and sciences
If you're not good at science, choose liberal arts, and don't be bound by the prejudice that "girls are good at science". Although I am a girl, I am good at science, and I almost got a perfect score in Physics and Chemistry that year. If you don't know what you're doing, you'll regret it for the rest of your life - there are fewer liberal arts majors, and you have to memorize every day, but you can learn them if you understand them.
Mom and Dad recommend science because there are more jobs and more recruits. But if you have the advantage of liberal arts, why not choose? Some of the majors can apply for liberal arts students, science students, on the contrary, do not choose because of the wrong regret.
Comprehensive literature, including politics, history and geography, note that geography universities are more science-oriented, the employment of science students prevail. Politics and history pure liberal arts, like can learn well.
♡ The goal of your choice of remedial classes is to raise your scores. You're only a freshman in high school, so you have plenty of time and have every chance to catch up from the basics. If you put it off until your senior year, it will be much harder to rush from low scores to high scores.
♡ Communicate well with your mom and dad about your reasons for wanting to stay in school, or let them know about the strict administration of a supplementary school - going to a supplementary school can be especially torturous if you can't get away from your phone.
♡ I'm Juju, good luck with your studies!