Deviation from the college path: from confusion to autonomous growth

Deviation from the college path: from confusion to autonomous growth

In retrospect, from the moment I stepped into the university gate, my life path seemed to have gone astray, and my heart felt especially bad.

I really don't know where to begin, but perhaps the trajectory of my life has been off course since the first day of college. Coming back last year worsened the situation, and now, I almost want to give up the struggle and just wait for Christmas.

What is the point of life anyway? I feel like my life is uninteresting.

Hello, classmate! It's just a few short words, but I can hear your helplessness and confusion.

I wonder what you've been through in the past that made you feel like going to college made you go off track and even lose faith in life? It really hurts for you! It feels as if you are not in control of your life, so why are you willing to be set up? Have you tried to express your true thoughts in an appropriate way? At the same time, can you see the reason behind your family's arrangement for you? I mean the deeper reasons. In fact, we often put ourselves in the position of a victim and wallow in our misery, forgetting that we have great power within us to make a difference.

Students, no matter what happened in the past, as long as you have the will to learn and change yourself, I believe that you will be able to live the life you want in the future. So, try to learn to express your true feelings (you can read some relevant books), tell your family and let them believe that you can be responsible for yourself. As long as you are brave enough to take this step, you are not far away from a meaningful life!

Come on, be the master of your life!