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I'm in pretty good condition, and I've had girls actively pursuing me, but I just don't have any feelings for girls. On the contrary, I often fantasize about having something with my best buddy, and I can't help but feel my heart racing when I see a handsome guy, and I'd love to try something.
Hello, owner! I'm Whale Social Worker Koboku.
First of all, a warm hug to you, I can totally understand where you are coming from. From what you've shared, I can sense that you get a sexual attraction to the same sex and lack that urge for the opposite sex.
In fact, it's probably because you're in the adolescent stage. During this time, our body's hormone levels fluctuate more and ideas about sexual orientation are still slowly forming, so it's not necessarily a big deal. Many guys have similar experiences and confusion at this age.
Maybe it's because you don't usually have much contact with girls. If you feel confused, you may want to communicate and interact more with the opposite sex first and observe if your feelings have changed. If you're still unsure, it's a good idea to talk to a professional counselor.
Good luck getting out of the confusion! --Whale Social Worker Xiao Bei 🐳
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