In the university dormitory, I encountered a particularly annoying thing: a hometown from the same place, always inexplicably targeted me. She always disliked people in a weird way, such as mocking me by saying "you can't even remember the classroom", or when she asked a question, she didn't make herself clear, and then she threw out a sentence of "forget it, forget it, pretend I didn't ask it", which was a very bad attitude. What's even more frustrating is that she's so warm to other roommates, but she's so cold to me that she doesn't even say a word. When I chat with others, she always suspected me of talking about her behind her back, making it seem like we have a deep grudge, but also spread my bad words on QQ. But the point is that I did not do anything ah! This kind of cold violence makes me almost can't stand it, in the face of this depressing atmosphere, what should I do?
In fact, fighting back appropriately is often a key step in breaking the ice and bringing tensions down.